The Handshake

When you first meet a person, the deciding factor of overall judgement would be that first handshake. (At least for me)

I don't like shaking cold and clammy / sweaty hands. Neither do I like weak handshakes. Then again, who does?! 

Even for myself, I tend to shake hands firmly and grasp the person's hand a little hard for the standards of a girl (So I've been told; I shake hands like a guy hehe.) 

I've shook some ladies' hands, and realise that their grips are rather soft. It's almost as if she half expects you to kiss her hand and go 'M'lady' and do a little curtsy. Hur.