Thoughts...Bits and pieces of 'em. Life is good (?) after exams.
Alice's belated birthday thang at Foodology!
This pic makes me giggle, cos I stood too far away when taking this pic and went "Why do the 2 of you look so small sized in here" hahaha.
looove. < 3
It's officially the month after my exams. I feel like I've been doing so many things after my exams ended, then I looked at my expenses for May and realised the correlation between expenses and activities. Hur.
I still have a ton of things to do!
-Adventure Cove Waterpark
-Tulipmania at Gardens by the Bay
-Sentosa picnic
-Shop for more shoes and makeup! (hemhem)
Before my exams I'd noted down stuff that I'd wanted to blog about. Soooo here goes!
1. Qualms about leaving bags behind at tables:
When I go out and eat with friends, I realise that most of them are perfectly alright with leaving their bags behind and taking out their valuables to go and buy food together, with no one to look after the bags.
why?!!
Most give me the "Aiya, no one will want to steal our bags la. Just all go together"
What makes them think that no one would wanna steal our bags, even with no valuables in it? Doesn't it occur that some people may have a field day just taking our bags and throwing them somewhere for the fun of it? Hmmm. Weird.
2. On dating a chef.
There're lots of articles you can read, from wives/ people who're dating chefs. It's their two cents worth on the not so common experience....
-Sometimes chefs are so busy that you start to half believe that your boyfriend is just a hallucination from one drink too many.
- You must be prepared to spend the commercial holidays without him, as most places open during the holidays. (Christmas, New Year's Eve etc)
-You should probably get a life , and not be joined to him at the hip.
If you've heard of Bridezillas, then I'm probably a girlfriend-zilla. I am guilty of feeling insanely murderous when I see another female's Whatsapp pop up repeatedly on the boyfriend's screen.Especially if the way they talk is akin to the way he used to talk to me in the beginning, smileys and all.
Then the passive aggressive in me would just withdraw and avoid all forms of conversation with him to avoid a conflict, and then try to forget about it, sweeping things under the carpet.
Bad habit I know. But I just find confrontations useless. If the fellow wants to cheat / rather talk to another person, there's nothing much you can do to prevent this from happening. What's yours will be yours. Simple as that.
So I've changed from being a passive aggressive girlfriend-zilla into a Zen one.Many things in life , we can't control. Including each other's feelings.
That's not to say that I won't have murderous instincts when I see a girl's name pop up on the screen...Just sayin.